Grounds
The garden that survives August
A Mediterranean garden that needs daily water is not a garden. It is an installation with a subscription.
Your result
Far enough that nobody drops in, close enough that you actually go.

You want somewhere that removes rather than adds. Fewer rooms, less to maintain, a landscape doing the work that decoration does elsewhere, and a distance from ordinary life that is measured in phone signal rather than kilometres.
The retreat is the only kind of house that reliably changes how people feel, and it does it by reducing the number of decisions available. It is also the cheapest good house to build, because most of the money goes into a small number of things done properly.
The distance decides everything. Beyond about two hours from the front door, a second home gets used four times a year and becomes a maintenance obligation with a view. Also plan for being there in bad weather, since a retreat that only works in sunshine is a summer house with ambitions.
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